Okay, love is a strong word so how about turning a job you loathe into one you at least lukewarm like?
According to a piece published this morning by Forbes, Nisa Chitakasem, co-author of How to Get the Job You Want, writes that even people who seem to be happy overall go through ruts when they can’t stand their jobs. So yes, it’s going to happen to all of us at one point or another.
There are several ways to tough it out when the going gets rough.
1. Ask to work with different people. For starters, maybe you’re tired of working with the same people day in, day out. Chitakasem writes, “Even if you don’t necessarily hate your co-workers, it can refresh your outlook on your work and the aspects of it that you hate to involve different people. On upcoming projects, ask to be teamed with individuals you don’t usually work with or even interact with around the office.”
2. Make a lateral move. The author calls this a “sideways shift” but it comes down to keeping your skills sharp and remaining fresh if you’ve hit a dead end and there’s nowhere to go. She adds, “Think smartly about how you can be helpful in bringing this about, rather than sitting back and expecting to be moved somewhere new.”
3. Find a confidant. While all of these tips require being proactive, one way to handle the rut is to simply vent to someone. Of course, this involves seeking out the right person to confide in first (and by right, we mean someone you can fully trust). In her blog post, the author recommends “a colleague, a mentor or a close friend in another department.”
4. Enjoy your down time. If the nine to five (okay, who are we kidding? More like nine to six, seven or eight!) grind of a work day saps your energy, it’s important to bulk up your schedule outside the office with fulfilling endeavors. Freelancers, this pertains to you, too! Chitakasem emphasizes the importance of scheduling activities that invigorate and energize. Essentially, fill up your play time with people you enjoy spending time with, be sure to get enough sleep, and of course, carve enough down time for yourself.
5. Make diet and fitness a priority. In addition to getting enough quality sleep, diet and fitness are paramount to feeling healthy and full of energy. She writes in her blog post, “By eating well and exercising regularly, we increase our energy levels and alertness and lift our mood. You might be surprised at how much these changes can contribute to a more positive attitude about your job.”